First, you want to craft an Energy Bridge:

This will be the center of your conversion system. Put it somewhere. Next, pick one or more of the various mod systems below. You’ll need at least one ‘consumer’ and one ‘producer’. Put them adjacent to the bridge. You’ll get a GUI like this:

At the top, “INPUT LIMITED” or “OUTPUT LIMITED” will tell you if you’re drawing more than you’re inputting, or vice-versa, respectively. Each row describes one face of the bridge, and lists the following data:
- Side relative to bridge
- Power system connected, if any
- Input vs output
- Rate (or “NO LINK” if the block on that face has no wires/pipes/etc connected to it).
In addition, the background of each row will be black if nothing is there, red if a block is present but has no connections, yellow if connected and 0 throughput, or green if it’s doing something.
Note that producer/consumer blocks’ faces will change when a connection is detected.
There is also a universal charger:

This links to chests (anything with an inventory, really) and can charge items inside of those chests. It understands both IC2 and UE items. It can also charge items in the player’s inventory if the player stands on it.
All recipes shown are for consumers; to get a producer, just put the consumer in a crafting grid (the reverse also works to get consumers back).
Power systems:
BuildCraft
BuildCraft consumer:

Or:

BC consumer/producers are available if either BC or TE are installed.
Factorization
FZ consumer:

Due to Factorization oddness, you must place PowerConverters blocks after the Factorization blocks.
IndustrialCraft2
IC2 LV consumer:

IC2 MV consumer:

IC2 HV consumer:

IC2 EV consumer:

IC2 EV consumers have no upper limit on input pulse size, so they’ll accept nonstandard wiring like GregTech superconductors just fine (though finding a way to output all that power might be difficult). EV producers output 2048EU. All IC2 producers will output a single pulse per tick of their specified voltage, but this can be increased in the config.
Steam
Steam consumer:

Steam consumers/producers can be throttled in the config file if desired. Remember, ThermalExpansion Liquiducts are by far the most effiicent system for liquid transport.
UniversalElectricity
UE 60V consumer:

UE 120V consumer:

UE 240V consumer:

UE 480V consumer:

Note that UE’s own “Watt” is power/second, and the bridge displays power/tick. There is a factor of 20 difference between them. This is not a bug.